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August 1st, 2005


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10:00 am - Please keep all hands and feet inside the train while it is in motion.

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Current Music: "She's Going Out of My Mind", -JB

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From:hekatatia
Date:August 2nd, 2005 12:36 pm (UTC)
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Well done for remaining friends! My ex-husband and I are still good friends so I know where you're coming from. We thought about having a divorce reception since we'd eloped and never had a proper wedding reception but didn't think the families would take to the idea. ;D Dammit, we wanted presents!

Good luck to you.
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From:chronarchy
Date:August 3rd, 2005 02:38 pm (UTC)
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Thank you. Luck is highly important in such things sometimes :)

You should have had a divorce reception!
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From:druid_medb
Date:August 4th, 2005 07:56 pm (UTC)
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You know those bridal registries they do at Dillard's and Macy's? I actually registered for my divorce, which is supposed to be final on October the 7th. Maybe that's a little tacky but ah well, I need stuff.

I plan to have a divorce party once it is final. We already had a separation party the week after I moved out, it was a blast. I'm pretty sure Ben had a great time too.

The first few months were tough since we are trying to remain friends. He's gotten a little wierd a few times, but I think after the divorce is final he will be less so.
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From:hekatatia
Date:August 5th, 2005 02:35 pm (UTC)
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That's fantastic! You need stuff at least as much when splitting up as when getting married.

I found it much easier to remain friends after the divorce. Not that it was terrible before, but my ex had several periods of weirdness. That's understandable, but there's only so much I would take. =) We remained roommates for a year after separating. The final divorce hearing helped each of us regain a lot of personal space and approach friendship without the other bonds there.

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