October 3rd, 2005
|02:06 pm - Sex magic and amusement|
I've been thinking recently about sex magic. I've never had the opportunity to experiment with it with other people before. . . now I do have that chance. I don't know exactly how to treat it, though, or even how to approach it. Maybe I should take out a personal ad?
"SWM seeks SF for sex magic and ritual. Must be clean, discreet, N/S with some magical experience. Willing to train enthusiastic student to necessary level. Relationship will be primarily magical rather than emotional. Ideal candidates should be between 22 and 28, professional in their demeanor, not be allergic to latex, and must not cry during orgasm. Blood/STD tests required."
Wouldn't that be creepy?
Current Mood: amused
Current Music: "One Lonely Room", -JB
I bet you'd get more inquiries for that than a regular SWM seeks SWF.
Certainly I would get more interesting people inquiring. No doubt there.
this was a hypothectical right?
I mean, you can't post stuff like this to tease all your SF friends who have studied and researched sex pagic for YEARS without the actual opportunity. It's like saying "i've thought of this idea, but i'm not gong to carry it out yet and just keep it on the back burner". PURE ABUSE Micheal.
On a more serious note, until your ready to try sex magic with the suitable partner, masturbation is key.
|Date:||October 3rd, 2005 06:23 pm (UTC)|| |
Re: this was a hypothectical right?
Yes, this is a hypothetical personal ad.
But thinking about sex magic? Not so hypothetical. It's something I've never been able to try out.
But I am extremely picky about my partners. Far more picky than the above personal ad.
I would never, ever sleep with someone I didn't trust on a level beyond simple friendship. There really does have to be an element of love.
That's what I hear, baby. . .
Haha. I was just thinking of things that would make someone drop out of gnosis faster than anything else, and I've heard stories about women (and men, if you can believe it) who cry during orgasm. Nothing wrong with it, but damn if I wouldn't be so confused (and probably concerned) that I'd lose whatever gnosis was gained.
As for "willing to train", that's a total joke. I imagine I can learn a lot more from most women than they can learn from me.
|Date:||October 3rd, 2005 06:23 pm (UTC)|| |
If only I were 11 years younger.
We've poked at the idea of a sacred sex/sex magic working group but...the cost to leading such a group is pretty heavy, so we are still pussy footing around
I doubt I'd be comfortable in a working group, myself. But I'm curious about the costs associated. Enlighten me on some?
|Date:||October 3rd, 2005 07:01 pm (UTC)|| |
Re: Oy Vey
Primarily, not wholely :)
Sexual gnosis can be gleaned from any sexual encounter.
Sure can; however, I'm not interested in any sexual encounter.
We did sex magic in the Coven i used to practice with. But I was never one of the people to be having sex.
Twould be cool though. Something tells me that sex magic is one type of magic that would really suit me.
Yes, I think it really would. And I mean that totally as a compliment.
Now I'm curious how the Coven practiced. A physical Great Rite, in the same room or a different one, perhaps?
Ok, yeah, creepy.
Try this (hypothetical) one: Sex Magick and ritual. I’m not looking for a girlfriend, or a life partner. I’m looking for a friend that I can explore the magicakal side of sexuality with. Ideal candidates should be female, between 22 and 30, professional in their demeanor, and secure enough with themselves to understand that this would not be a romantic relationship, but rather one where are both working towards the same goal, an understanding of Sex Magick. Safe sex is a must (latex). STD panel test (including hpv) needed for both our protection.
Trust me, if you put the “K” in there, more people will show. If you put the “cry” in there, people will think you are rapist.
Ghostwriter of a thousand personal ads
|Date:||October 3rd, 2005 08:41 pm (UTC)|| |
Re: try this one
Except that I would never, ever put the "k" on magic. That's a personal preference on my end. Don't care if it gets me a wider audience :)
|Date:||October 3rd, 2005 09:20 pm (UTC)|| |
Active discussion, this, eh?
I'd say "surprisingly so," but it's really not. It's generally the stupid stuff that gets the best response on my LJ. The deeper stuff, less so. This amuses me.
"...and must not cry during orgasm."
Tisk Tisk! Have you learned nothing deary? Orgasm is total release of, well, everything. If she crys, farts, sings a tune or calls your name; just be happy you got her off.
Now the other part of your want ad should read,
"Must be able to come from pen only", it makes it easier for that whole sex magick thing.
Oh yes before I forget, Donald Michael Craig has a very good book on the subject.
Duly noted. :)
I don't know if I have the Kraig book. I may. I can't say as I've purchased many books on the subject.
I swear, not giggling about the pictures in those books is damn near impossible, not to mention some of the content.
Ha! You seem to love stirring the pot in your LJ on Mondays, for some reason. I wandered by tonight and was like "100 comments?!" Reminds me of the whole "why are liberals always so doom and gloom?" thing that also took place on a Monday.
In your hypothetical situation, I hope you're taking into account the fact that a hypothetical test for STDs may not show the presence of HIV antibodies until at least six months after your partner's initial exposure. I hope your trust is well-placed enough to also trust their judgement when it comes to magicking around with people other than you.
Haha. Yeah, my LJ gets huge comment threads on the weirdest stuff.
Most of the time, if I find it terribly interesting, I get nearly no comments. Then I post something that is just fun, and I get over 100. My friends are strange.
*nods* about the tests. There are no foolproof ways to avoid such things. You just have to really, truly trust a person and hope that your trust is justified. No two ways around it.
The things I miss when I sleep all day after all-nighters in the studio.....
I've never done sex magic, oddly enough. My ex was pretty uptight about sex in a lot of ways. And now there's the issue of finding the person to partner with... which is not my forte, apparently.
Odd note- I dated a guy in high school who cried when we were making out. No orgasm involved- just kissing. It drove me nuts- I always wanted to smack him upside the head & tell him to get a grip.
Not my forte, either, actually. Maybe you should try a personal ad, too :)
Crazy. I'd have smaked him, not just wanted to.