January 16th, 2007
|04:30 pm - More on nominations|
I have declined all nominations for ADF office.
I do not believe myself ready to do those jobs, nor am I able to do them at this time. In particular, certain intricacies in ADF's international scene have led me to reconsider running for a number of them, as have my own needs and those of my Grove.
I had a deep, definite experience last night that showed me that I wasn't going to run for these offices; indeed, I have to re-focus on certain other things instead.
Thank you to those who had faith in me. I apologize that I will not fulfill your hopes for those offices this year. I am sure someone else will manage quite effectively in each of them.
Current Location: Southeast of Disorder
Current Mood: working
Current Music: "Something So Feminine About a Mandolin", -JB
Congratulations, honey. It's tough to say no, sometimes.
It is, but in that moment where the cosmic searchlight of truth hit me full in the face last night, I realized that it wasn't really all that hard at all. And today's events have made it more obvious: right now, "no" is the right thing to say.
Thank you. I do my best.
And yes, a large chunk of why I declined the nominations is simply because I have too many other responsibilities that are simply not anywhere near done. I have many more things to wrap up before I can run for an office, and right now, running for an office has an element of "conflict of interest" to me, too.
But most of all, I'm just glad I could help you :) Even if the help was small :)
It's often harder to say no than to say yes. Good for you for knowing what was best for you.
Though I have to admit, I'm a little disappointed that you won't be the site of the national meeting-- I might have actually attended that one! ;)
Best for ADF, too. Then again, it might have been good for me, but I was far more worried about ADF. It's too valuable to me.
As to the Annual Membership Meeting site, well, I figured I wouldn't try, even though I was able to come up with a good reason why they should let me run. . .
Besides, the girlfriend did say "no go"
Whatever you need, whatever works for you. Completely.
I'm gonna support you no matter what. You can't get rid of me :-)
You're like a bad penny? You always turn up?
I have this quote on my wall at work. It seems appropriate to your situation right now, and so I share it with you:
Fortitude is the capacity to say "no" when the world wants to hear "yes."
Dunno if the world wanted to hear "yes", but I'll take it :)
It's a far better person who recognizes their current limitations and needs and does the right thing, rather than the person with a blinded, bloated ego who forges ahead even though they can't cash the checks that their mouth writes. Good show.
*nods* And I try and do the right thing. Don't always succeed, but sometimes I manage :) I know my limits and where I can go from here, I think.
I know this has been hard for you. I hope you know that whatever your decision, I'd have your back.
Of course. :) Knowing you're there often makes my decisions easier.
You're a bright light to me :)
Good for you! It's tough saying no when you think you're going to be letting people down.
Dunno if anyone was actually let down. In the end, they (and I) just wanted what was best for ADF. They gave me the opportunity to determine if I might be.
And I realized that, right now, I'm not. Maybe later, but not right now.
You have to do what is best for you in all things. Since you seem to be available to folks whom need your help I really see no difference. :)
As fulfilling the hopes of others...*crosses eyes* The only hope I have is to meet you one day. I swear there are times you inspire me. I hope that does not change in either case. Good luck to you.
I expect to retain the same jobs I have been doing in ADF, particularly where they are connected to the membership and the reading of DP stuff. So I don't forsee a lot of things changing on those fronts.
I'm glad I inspire you, though I can't imagine why :) I just do what I do.
Hey, is everything alright? In my experience 'deep, defining experience' is a euphemism for 'violent kick in the ass.' So if you ass is sore, remember that you've got friends who will treat it ... er... gently? Alright the wording there is all kinds of wrong, but you get the central idea.
This is post is all about you wanting to be here for us</u>, but we're here for you even as you write it.
And no worries about no positions, yet; I'm sure once you can rule a Grove as mischievous as ours with iron fist you can totally rule the world afterward.
Everything is just fine. "deep, defining experience" just means that I know what I have to do is all.
As for how you treat my ass, well. . . we'll talk about that later.
And are you saying that I don't already rule this Grove?
|Date:||January 19th, 2007 02:30 am (UTC)|| |
I still love ya :)
Love ya, too, babe. :) What did I do to deserve a good friend like you again?
Those deep, definite experiences are what this is all about, aren't they?
I hope you know that I respect you for being guided by them.