Yeah, that happens to me all the time. E.g. I´ve had my laptop in service for 3 months to be finally told that it´s unrepairable (I only had it since winter) so I borrowed money from my parents to buy a new one. I have just started the academical year and truth is I will have a lot of work there and in my business also, if I want to succeed. Not to mention I need to pay that money back.
I had some substantial debates with people whose advice I do value very much and it seems that my initial ambition to become a Grove leader was a wrong one. I don´t have vocation for that sort of thing. I am a scholar, I want to write, translate, perhaps teach. Recently I´ve been initiated into the interfaith thing which interests me a lot. It actually gives me pain to socialize, and one has to be visible when at leadership position. Socializing sucks from me the concentration I need to work. And man do I love to work.
So what I am going to do now is to concentrate on my studies and writing, including the DP and the ADF Czech website, but I´ll be eyeing a prospective candidate to lead the congregation, if there is potential to found one (which we´ll see within a year - the umbrella organization is just being launched, I designed the website BTW: http://www.davnyobycej.cz
I still have to deal with that complaint and I´ve been receiving a lot of letter from my website´s readers, so that´s the maximum I can do for local Pagan community. There are always people looking for mentors and such, but I´ve started turning them off with more vigour recently, because that would really be the pathway to hell for me. I have no desire to end up poor and burned out. Oh, I can see I badly need to speak to somebody about this or at least write :-)