February 3rd, 2004
|01:31 pm - PSA|
So I'm doing something I almost never do next week. I'm going to skip PSA.
See, Tina's told me several times that she feels ignored on Tuesday nights. You know, not that this is any different than usual.
So I decided I'd surprise her and not go tonight. It's a mid-quarter party, and I have so much to do beforehand, anyway, that PSA is (for once) a serious inconveniece. But Tina has to study for a test, which I found out when I mentioned I'd be staying home.
Well, since she's studying for a test this week, I'm going to avoid being home to bug her and skip out next week.
This makes a total of 3, I think, that I've ever missed. It might be two, but I have a nagging feeling I missed another one.
I'm just glad next week I'm not teaching. I'm doing chaos magic on the 17th, and I'm working on preparing for that, though the going is slow since I have so much that I need to do.
But I'm thinking something simple for next Tuesday. Maybe a movie and dinner? *shrugs* I dunno. But I gotta do this.
Current Mood: bored
Current Music: "Ellis Dee (He Ain't Free)", -JB
So you skipped PSA for her and she has to study? Bad timing... :P Maybe she would be partial to an ice cream study break? LOL I don't know... have fun at your dinner and if it's Olive Garden make a toast to me.
Skip lots. You're an important part, but not so important that anyone (well, me, at least and I'm all that matters :-p) will die or go into a tizzy if you decide to take care of your personal life :-)
All is well. Take your time, enjoy life. Don't make this a stressor. I think I remember someone telling me something very similar to this last quarter, ... Hmm, good thing I listened to him, I could have exploded long before now.
(makes whipping noise)
Yeah, I had to miss tonight cause I'm still sick. I didn't leave the house until Tom came home, at about ten til 6; thought I was getting better. It took actually going outside and walking around to realize I'm still too stupid to be productive. Tom had said he was skipping, because he's still sick too... didn't really want to have to deal with driving there and back, kind of dizzy.... See you in two weeks, I suppose. : /
So goes life.. Enjoy your night out. I hope you two will be able to get some quality time which is what is most important to a relationship.. The fact that you are communicating your needs and responding to each other's needs is what is most important here. :)